I am the Mommy. I am in charge. I do not put up with the kid's tantrums. I will send her little ass to bed. But I seriously DREAD having to tell her to do anything because I just don't want the fight. And that little asshole totally knows it.
Everyone tells me that if I am firm and don't react too much to it, it will stop but since I became determined not to yell and scream and freak out at her, the anger is just building and I fear that I am going to slap her. She is such a little bitch sometimes.
Tonight I made Daddy deal with it.